How to unblock stb file

This past Monday we decided to go to a citi branch and deposit a large check, the bank executive advised us to open a new savings acct on top of our current checking and savings accounts that we’ve had for over 10 years. Check stated very clearly where it was coming from and why. Next day we checked the app and stated all 3 accounts were blocked, I proceeded to call customer service which was useless, they only stated possibly blocked for 24-48 hrs by fraud dept. I was transferred over, they asked me a million questions which I was able to answer with no problem, but it wasn’t enough for them so they couldn’t unblock them. Same thing happened Wednesday, and Thursday. So later that Thursday we went to a branch, which was again useless, all they did was dial the fraud dept, spoke to people whom we could barely understand and from all the 4 people we spoke to, 1 stated accounts were closed to wait 30-60 days for funds, but that the check we deposited is still being validated?? Told us to have the issuer called them, and he did about 5 times but the fraud dept stated they couldn’t verify it was him!! We have contacted the ERU team, file complaints with BBB, CFPB and OCC. Its unbelievable how they will hold your own money hostage!!

Hi,
I cut contact with Nmom about a year ago. I also broke off from an old friend group she knows of as I was aware she might try to use them to get to me, including a friend who is also a covert narcisisst who I already had planned to cut contact with after finding out she was a narc.
Having dealt with the initial onslaught of messages/showing up at my door and flying monkeys from Nmom it seems that I am now hitting a second wave as my covert Nfriend noticed I have cut her out as well, except this time it is a lot more scary. I am not sure to what extent Nmom is involved with this as I cut contact with her on everything, but they have likely been in touch with each other as she knows them.
Past few months Nfriend wouldn't stop sending fb messages even with 0 response from me, and even though I have had next to minimal conversation with her the past year and a half. She asked for my address, I did not respond. She then sent me mail anyway, I guess she must've found it online or through Nmom. I threw the letter away as I had not given my address to her. Then a mutual friend (flying monkey 1) I have not spoken to in 2 years began messaging me asking to meet up out of nowhere. I knew this was my ex friend was pulling strings and gave them no response, but I then started receiving text messages to my phone number from both of them (did not give them my number). I blocked the number of Nfriend. She tried to call me through a different number. I felt that this crossed a line and went ahead and blocked both her and the mutual friend on socials as well as their numbers.
Then Nfriend sends me more letters, using some weird winnie the pooh themed envelope paper. I find this very weird and covert, as she has a history of acting overly cute and innocent while going behind your back so I throw them away too without reading.
Forward to these past few weeks where yet another mutual friend (flying monkey 2) contacts me saying she wants to arrange some hangout with the friend group mentioned earlier. I ghost her as I know this is yet another attempt and likely my Nfriend is behind it. She however, escalates like crazy. I receive fb calls, text messages shaming me for not having responded, then calls every day for weeks, several times a day followed by messages on every single platform. I get a message from new numbers after I block them and she justifies this as being "worried" and asks if she can come visit etc. (she lives in a different city). I don't want to give in letting her know that the this tactic of harassing me works so I just keep blocking and ignoring hoping it will fade off. This is not the first time she has acted controlling with me and I know she just wants a response. We have also gone through periods of not talking for several months before without any problem so this is specific.
however, after having been bombarded for weeks in every way she can find, including money transfer apps, I finally get a message from yet a new number claiming she will report me as missing to the police if i do not answer immediately. I give a short response asking her to please leave me alone, and block the number. She text from yet another number demanding that I prove that "I am me" by rehashing this one specific sentimental memory from over 10 years ago. I see this for what it is and do not answer.
Next day first mutual friend (flying monkey 1) shows up at my door, ringing my doorbell several times and waiting. Again I have not given my address, so I do not open. I live in a gated apartment so I have no idea how she got in, I guess she waited around until someone let her in. I am already traumatised from Nmom doing this and do not appreciate people showing up uninvited. After no answer, she comes back an hour later and does the same. When I don't open she goes and talks to my neighbour. I hear him confirm that he's seen me around. After this incident I unblock her to send her a message saying that I don't appreciate her showing up as I have not given her my address, that I don't want to be contacted, and to leave me alone.
Today I run into my OTHER neighbour (who I have never talked to) who tells me that "a friend" of mine had contacted him by phone. They have apparently somehow found my neighbours information and gotten his phone number and called him about me. To be clear, this is a completely random person neither of us know or have ever spoken to.
What do I do in this situation? I am considering filing a report for harassment but thought it might be hard since it involves a group of old "friends" who are feigning "worry" and likely spinning up a story about not being able to get a hold of me even though I have them blocked. I have recorded everything from messages to times and dates of incidents.
Even if I call the police beforehand to report that I am not in fact missing I am worried about what further escalation may look like as they have already gone as far this far. I am tired of walking around with a lump in my chest worried about what might happen next.
Any ideas? Anyone been through this before?

Around July 24 of 2023, my boyfriend hit up a dude selling a 2018 Yamaha R3 on Facebook Marketplace. I sent my boyfriend the money for the bike, because it was going to be mine, and he handled the dealing & conversation with the seller of the bike because I am not good with conversation or people skills. My boyfriend attempted (more than once) to send him a sales contract for everyone to sign. The guy couldn’t figure out how to sign it through an e-doc, so we agreed on printing a paper contract. (Somewhere along the line, the paper contracts were either never printed or lost. I’m not sure, and this probably wouldn’t have happened if I had just handled buying the bike myself instead of entrusting it to my partner.) On August 2, 2023 we picked up the bike and I sent the guy $300 on CashApp with $300 cash in hand. He kept the title and we agreed to going to get a lien under his name (which also never eventually happened), and then eventually later on he told us that the title was not in his name. We also never had a license plate for the bike, he told us that it had flew off while he was riding it previously. On August 30, I sent him $600 CashApp. On September 21, 2023 he asked to buy the bike back. I was about to lose my job, and agreed to sell him the bike back, because I didn’t want to keep making payments on something I couldn’t afford. He gave me a little under $300 in cash with the remaining in CashApp to total out to $300. He came & picked up the bike same day then texted us to ask if we did something to the bike because the clutch was messed up and said he had to replace it. My boyfriend (who has ridden motorcycles since he was a baby lol) had only driven this bike 3 times (1 of which was to and from a bike shop) to keep her smooth because I was working on getting my motorcycle license to legally ride. The bike was in perfect shape when it left our driveway & we even had maintenance done on it at a Qwik-Bike shop while we had it to assure my bike was in tip-top shape when I got to ride her. He then ghosted my boyfriend after agreeing he’d pay us back the $1,200 that we had already given on the bike in $450 payments over 2 months (he owes us a total of $900 because he gave us $300 when he showed up to take the bike back home). We attempted to reach out to him several times since. First he stalled us with “I’ll get your money soon.” Then he eventually stopped responding and blocked my boyfriend. We reached out to his mother, letting her know that we would be filing a small claims petition against him for the money he owed us. He unblocked to text us and tell us not to message his family. (I understand I may have overstepped some boundaries here, but we wanted to reach out one last time before resulting to legal action.) I have proof of everything over text messages.
I have just a couple questions and I am seeking advice before I decide to go through with a small claims petition against this dude. It seems like such a silly thing to do in my head, and I know I am still a dumb kid in a dumb situation, but I am genuinely at a loss here since I really needed the money he promised. I'm really upset about spending so much money on this bike and receiving no bike, and hardly any reimbursement in the end. I definitely don’t want to put myself in any dumber situations. What are my chances of winning in small claims? Will text messages hold up in court?

My boyfriend has been served a notice for a tpo hearing. The court date is in two weeks.
Q1: do we have enough time to find a lawyer? Q2: will the court appoint one if we can’t find one?
Some backstory might be helpful- In April of 2023 his wife sent him to my roommates because she wanted him to get sober and clean, and my roommates took him in. He’s been living with us since. The wife came to see him a total of nine times from April to September. They have a 1 year old daughter. The wife has not let him see his daughter since September, and he’s begged on several occasions for the wife to let him see her. His wife that he’s been separated from since September 7th, and has not seen in person since then, has filed a petition for a tpo in GA. It’s on the grounds of domestic violence and aggravated stalking. During every occurrence of this that she listed in the petition, I was there those days and neither of them were out of my sight the whole time that the wife was there. Every incident that she said occurred happened at our home, and I was witness to every single minute that they spent together on those days. I guarantee no physical violence occurred and my roommates can also attest to that. They were however yelling at each other on those days. One of the incidents she has listed was a text conversation of them arguing on September 7th. He said, and I’m quoting, “I hope you and your **** *** mother dies slowly in a car crash” and in a separate text message, “you should be the one killing yourself.” I see how the wishing for her death part can be seen as emotional abuse in court. The text argument was about her canceling the plan they’d made for him to see his daughter that day and not being willing to reschedule it. They argued and both said some mean things to each other, before he started talking about how she is the reason their firstborn son died in a miscarriage. The miscarriage happened almost 3 years ago. The reason he got heavily addicted to the drugs he was sent to my home to get clean from was because he was grieving his son. The tricky part is that the son was miscarried due to the fact that the wife had an affair and caught syphilis while pregnant. She has cheated on him several times throughout the marriage that his friends and my roommate have witnessed. And there’s a long history of financial, emotional, and mental abuse that she inflicted on him.
Q3: how likely is it for her to be granted this tpo, and do we even have a chance to fight it? Q4: she has also requested to be granted temporary sole custody of their daughter, will we be able to fight that?
In the TPO petition, she also requested MY car. It’s registered to me, and I own it. I don’t know how she even knows about that car, considering that I got it almost a month after the last time she was at our home, and there was no way she would have seen it after that unless she had come by the house. It is in no way her husbands car.
Q5: does she have any legal right whatsoever to my car??? Q6: the only way she could have seen the car is if she cane to our home uninvited and unwanted without our knowledge or consent. Can this be used as an example of her stalking us?
Since the separation she has repeatedly blocked me and unblocked me on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok to view my pages for months.
Q7: can that be another example of her stalking?
Thank you for reading.

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i’ll do my best to summarize. my dad is a narcissistic alcoholic, to put it lightly. the last three years i still lived in the same house as him, he never ate real food. he only drank bare minimum of protein drinks, and at least two gallons of alcohol every day. he was that bad.
mom, sister, and i all tried to support him getting clean back in 2010. he entered his first inpatient addiction program in 2012 i don’t remember how long he was in there, at least a month. he got out a week before my 18th birthday. for my birthday we took a day trip to the city to walk around a big outdoor market, do some shopping, have some good food. at one point he stepped away for a “smoke break”. after a few minutes, when i turned around to look for a break in the crowd i saw him with a plastic cup of beer. he’s been dead to me ever since. but my mom and sister kept trying to support him for the next seven years as he went to inpatient, outpatient, therapy, AA, anything and everything. it was the same every time, he couldn’t last three days without something. you couldn’t hold a meaningful conversation with him by 2020, because he was wasted 24/7. mom finally had enough by 2021 and filed for separation (something about our state laws re: actual divorce, he could screw her over for the rest of her life in court because “he’s an addict who can’t work anymore”—like he hadn’t already screwed her entire life up) and it was nasty. the things he said and did both to and about her during the separation process really just cemented the fact that my father was long dead, because he would never say/do that. and he would deny all of it, because he could never remember.
he reached out to her and my sister on multiple occasions over the past 3-ish years, but never to me. but he would complain and cry and whine to anyone who would listen (my mom and sister included, who i lived with) that he did reach out to me, i just never responded because i blocked his number. i did not have him blocked, he never tried to contact me in the first place and was always lying about it. i cant count how many times my mom and sister asked me to unblock him until they finally got it in their heads that he was lying every time.
anyway, all this is to say that he did actually try to contact me about two weeks ago. i was out with friends when my phone rang, and it was him. i silenced my phone and let it ring. he called two more times before i finally texted him that i was busy and couldn’t talk. he called again, twice, before responding to the text, asking if i wanted to “go on a trip” with him in september. he also left a voicemail bemoaning how much he thinks about us, implied he was terminally ill (i do actually believe that one, knowing what state he was in last i saw him) and then immediately followed by “do you know where i can get a puppy?”
i haven’t responded again, because i just don’t know what to say. no. i know what to say, but he’s not gonna like it: “i wish you’d thought of us more when we were still a family, 15 years ago. we could have still been together. and no, i don’t want to go on a trip with you, at any point. you are a stranger to me, and i don’t want to spend an extended period of time stranded with you somewhere. i believe that you are ill, you have been for a long time. but if you are really as sick as you say, getting a puppy would be grossly irresponsible, because where will it go when you die? you aren’t even well enough to care for yourself. what happened to the other dog you got last year?”
would i be in the wrong for finally responding and telling him exactly how i feel?

Hi Mark. A while ago, you did a vid on the cancer survivor wife taking a hall pass.
There are updates! Or at least one. I can't figure out how to send the link to the post - maybe because it's a bestof? I dunno! So I just posted the whole darn thing.
[Final Update] - OOP's cancer survivor wife wanted a "Hall Pass"
I am NOT OP. Original post by u/throwawaytogetherccc in offmychest and survivinginfidelity
trigger warnings: infidelity, cancer
mood spoilers: sad and depressing for OOP
New updates start from 12th September 2023.
Previous BORU is here.
Editor's Note - OOP misgendered u/angelposts, this has been corrected.
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I am at a loss as to what to do with my (54M) wife (51F) request - 24th June 2023
My wife and I have been married since 2001 and together since 1999. She is the most intelligent, thoughtful, caring, loyal person I know, and I have always thought of myself as fortunate to have met and married her. She is, even today, aesthetically beautiful and men have told her this throughout our marriage. She has always shot them down.
Earlier this year, she was diagnosed with uterine cancer, stage 1 and had a full hysterectomy. I was never concerned about the cancer, it was diagnosed early, dealt with quickly and she made a full recovery. I took time off work to look after her after the surgery and all seemed well. There were some to-be-expected emotional instances on her part and although I am not an emotional person, we dealt with them together.
After her recover, she was insistent that we start “living life to the fullest” and took a 10 day trip to Europe, followed by a trip to Belize. We also have a trip to the UK and Spain/Portugal later this year. I am fine with these things, building memories and crossing bucket-list adventures off heour list. I also understand that these are a result of feeling fragile on her part. She also took up Yoga, Swimming and healthy cooking classes. I was fully onboard until last week.
Last week she came home from work and told me she wanted a “hall pass”. A one-time opportunity for her to have sex with someone else besides me. She said that since her cancer diagnosis her outlook on life has changed and she doesn’t want to be handcuffed from doing things she wants do. She explained that there is this guy at her work that she has always had some attraction to. He is leaving the company and she will never see him again, so this is the perfect opportunity to sleep with someone else. She said that I could say no of course but that she would “be mad/disappointed at me for an indeterminate amount of time and that it would be confirmation of my male toxicity and insecurity.”
I don’t consider myself to be toxic and if not wanting your wife of 20+ years to have sex with someone else is insecure than I guess I am insecure. I told her that I appreciated her talking to me about this but approval via coercion is not approval. I also said that I do not appreciate her language in describing my, as of yet, unknown reaction to this very large issue that could affect the rest of our marriage/life.
I got up in the morning she basically said that she was sorry for putting such a large decision solely on my shoulders and that to “help” she was taking the decision away from me. She booked a hotel near where her coworkers are having a party/send-off for this guy and she would spend the night there, with him and hoped that I would be here when she got back. That she would answer any questions I have about the night after it happened but not before. She will not tell me who he is or anything about him “because she knows me too well and that I will dwell and obsess over him” and that would make it “too real for me” which is pretty accurate. Her POV is that the less I know the better which contradicts the offer to tell me anything I want to know after it happened. I think she knows I wont want to know/ask anything or she simply will not tell me.
Part of me thinks, at least she has been honest with me and she has been through a lot since finding out she had cancer so maybe I should just let it happen. I certainly have no concept of what she went through so I cannot dismiss how this affected her mental state/outlook on life. Part of me wants to put my foot down and say this is not going to happen and deal with those consequences when they happen. Her BFF called me callous for even suggesting that I wouldn’t let it happen, because I have no idea what she went through. I find it hard to believe that she is OK with the possibility of throwing away 20+ years of marriage over some guy that she has had no relationship with outside of work and that I should just call her bluff. Maybe she thinks similarly that I won’t throw away the marriage because of one encounter. I just don’t know what to do. I empathize with her and then an instant later I am angry with her.
Part of me wants to know who this guy is? What does he look like, what has he got that is so enthralling for her. Is he just a safe option? Is he married? Does his wife know? Would I be a callous asshole for saying No? What can I do besides walking away?
TLDR: Wife battled cancer, won, but now wants to have one night with a soon-to-be former coworker and I have no say in the matter. Accept it or destroy 20+ years of a great marriage.

Top Comment from u/Biauralbeats
Kinda think this is the way your marriage will be from now on. With her epiphany, she wants to relive her life and she is going to do it regardless of your feelings. I think she is being rather selfish and probably only threatens this because she thinks you are beaten down and will simply put up with it. Perhaps not the best time for trips and frills. She wants the single life- let her see what that means.
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OOP replies to some comments
She thinks because she will never see this guy again and that I have never met him (supposedly) that it wont really affect me or our marriage in the long term.
I am left with accepting it and never viewing her the same way again or going through a divorce at 54. Not really great options on either front.
I don't know where her head is and the bout with cancer is affecting her in ways that I couldn't possibly imagine. I don't think she believes I will leave.

Update my cancer survivor wife wanted a "Hall Pass" UPDATE - 28th June 2023
I received a ton of advice that I couldn't possibly respond to. I do appreciate the people who took time to offer advice in the comments or via PM. It has been an exhausting couple of days.
I was hoping that my opposition to her plans would give her pause, but unfortunately that did not happen. I said I am a hard no, and I am not sure how I will feel about you, if you go ahead with it. I was met once again with “this is for me, it will be one time, what can I say to help you deal with it, you’ll get over it, we were meant to be regardless of the situation” remarks leading up to Saturday.
She left Saturday, ostensibly to meet her coworkers, but in reality fuck the guy. I asked her to text me when she was leaving for the bar and when she did I asked her if she was really going to go through with this. After her response “I am not answering anymore questions tonight, I will see you tomorrow.” I blocked my wife. Then I did something either stupid or brilliant.
I went to the bar where the get-together was happening. Well not the bar but a transit bench across the street. I waited for a long time. It was running through my mind the leading up to this event, that I need to know who this guy was, maybe to compare myself against him. To see what he had that I do not. It was driving me crazy not knowing who he was and what was so special about him that she would ruin a marriage for.
After what seemed like eternity, a woman that I recognized from my wife’s office left the bar and got in a cab. Soon other people started filing out and a whole group came out and people were hugging a man and shaking his hand. I assumed that I had my guy. I didn’t see my wife and had a brief thought that maybe she called it all off. I unblocked her and there were no messages.
Everyone said their goodbyes and left, dude was standing outside for a few minutes and then my wife came out. She looked around, took his hand and started walking away together. Of all the emotions I went through, trepidation, sadness, anger, it was disgust that really encapsulated the event for me. This guy was short, fat, and bald, all the things I cannot compete with. Ultimately, I felt like a pervert for watching from a distance. I followed until they got to the hotel, and then turned around and went home.
I woke up Sunday morning and put a lock on the master bedroom door. I moved her things to the spare room and left a note asking her to find other accommodations as quickly as possible. I visited another friend who is a lawyer and he gave me some sage advice and a couple of recommendations for divorce attorneys and made the introductions. My wife had been calling me numerous time since around 11 or so. Once blocked the calls go to voicemail. I listened to the first couple but felt nothing but some satisfaction when she couldn’t get through to me and she was obviously becoming concerned.
I didn’t want to go home but I left in such a hurry that I didn’t plan an overnight properly. I got home around 9 and as per my buddy’s advice, I recorded the interaction. I was halfway up the stairs when she came up from the family room asking what was going on? Could we talk? I thought we talked about this? I just answered with I am not interested in discussing this tonight and went to bed. After not getting a response from me through the door she left me alone. I feel kind of like a child for not talking with her and shutting the door on her but I just couldn't look at her. Monday I got up and ready for work, she was waiting for me and asked if we could discuss getting back to normal. I said, you have been doing all the talking for the both of us for the last week, why don’t you continue and left for work. I have an appointment with the attorneys my friend recommended for this week.
TLDR: She went ahead with it. I am actually more disgusted by who she chose than the sex itself, if that makes any sense. I asked her to find somewhere else to live.

Top Comment from u/RJPONY01
I can only hope that you've decided to do what's best for you. At the end of the day you're the one that has to live with your decisions. From your previous post it's obvious that your wife, and I use that term merely as a placeholder, has made her decision.
I know that having something that has been such a huge part of your life end can be daunting, but sometimes it's for the best.
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Potential Waywards & The BFF - 2nd August 2023
The BFF does not have your best interests in mind. The BFF wants to validate their bad choices by encouraging you to make the same ones. The BFF lives for the drama they help create. The BFF is titillated by the details. The BFF cultivates misery. The BFF is a narcissist, who cant help themselves, so if the statement, JUST GO FOR IT, YOU DESERVE IT, HE DOESN’T APPRECIATE YOU, HE DOESN’T RESPECT YOU, and in my case, YOU FACED YOUR OWN MORTALITY AND YOU SHOULDN’T LET ANYONE HOLD YOU BACK FROM DOING THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY, maybe realize that you should talk with your significant other and explain what you are feeling. You owe it to them to discuss the way you’re feeling about yourself, your partner and your marriage.
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Comments from OOP
Yeah, once the dust settled I realized that I was desperate to hold on to something that no longer existed. I have initiated divorce proceedings.
She has regret. Not remorse. Of course those are different things with different meanings. She regrets what has happened because her life is upside down now.
Someone in a private message asked if her cancer could be back and spread to her brain which I don't know if it has actually happened or not, but I doubt it would make any difference to me at this point. I just don't see her the same way any more.
I told all her friends husbands about how they enabled this behavior and the fall-out is interesting.
I said that maybe they are covering for one another, that maybe my wife was just the next link in the chain. This got them going through their wives phones. A couple found inappropriate sexting. All husbands have made their wives cut off my wife (and each other).
Was BFF one of those sexting?
Of course. The BFF's husband says that she was definitely in a EA and probably a PA as well. He is still digging.
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UPDATE I am a loss as to what to do with my (54M) wife (51F) Hall past request - 4th August 2023
Original was deleted, but was preserved in a comment
UPDATE 2:
My lawyer wasn’t available for a few days, so I was faced with the reality of having to live with my wife in the interim. I really didn’t want to go home and have any discussion, let alone a discussion about our relationship.
When I did get home I was basically ambushed by her friends and my mother in-law. Instead of taking the remorseful approach they decided that a full court press was what the situation warranted and I was basically berated by them. The BFF was definitely the ringleader, but all of them decided to say such things as; she’s been through a lot, you don’t know what she’s been through, you have no idea what it is like to face something like this, this was a one time thing, at least she told you she could have hidden it from you, she will never see the guy again, and my favorite, you are an asshole for what you have been putting her through these last couple of days.
I listened with a “dumbass smirk” on my face and when there was a lull in their fury, I asked if they were all done now. Then I asked my wife if there was anyone in her circle of friends or anyone else that she forgot to tell about this. I quietly informed all of them that I was going to sit down with their husbands and tell them about how they verbally abusing me, shaming me and trying to coerce me into staying with a cheater. After I told them to leave, I said that I had no say in entire event and so they have no say in whether I stay or not.
My STBXW sort of apologized. She said that she regretted the entire thing. I said there is a difference between regret and remorse. You regret what happened because of the cause-and-effect. You have regret because your life will never be the same, our relationship will never be the same because you where wholly and willfully unconcerned about me and what I wanted.
She asked if I had any questions that she would answer them now, no matter how disturbing. I said that the one question I do have is Why. Not necessarily why this guy, why this low-end unattractive, unfit guy, but why someone else in the first place? She said that the cancer scared her to her core. She felt like she was rushing toward mortality and stepping out of that tunnel was appealing. She said that after all this time of being a wife, and mother and worrying about family, this was something just for her. An escape. The guy was just someone who was interested in her for a long time, she knew wouldn’t say no and was completely opposite to me. I said if I was going to risk my marriage, the woman would have to be a serious upgrade from you. I told her that I saw you and him coming out of the bar that night. I watched you walk away from the bar hand-in-hand towards the hotel. I said that you looked too familiar with each other and asked if there was something going on before all this. She said no but who knows if that is the truth or not.
I said that after all our years together, your lack of respect for me was astonishing. I finished by saying that I would never be able to look at myself in the mirror again if I condoned that level of disrespect and stayed with you. I said I hope we can go our separate ways amicably and that I have an appointment with a lawyer later in the week. I again asked her to find some other accommodations and she simply said, I am not going anywhere. We are not getting a divorce. I will give you all the time you need and do whatever you need to recover from this. We will get past this. She has asked me to go to marriage counseling, which I refused. Why would I go to counseling, I did nothing to warrant needing a therapists advice.
I had her served and gave her a notice to vacate (the house is my premarital asset). She has moved in with her mom but I find her constantly coming by to see if I need anything or making suggestions like ‘what if we had an open relationship only on your side or threesomes’, which seems kind of desperate and pathetic. Rebuffing her constantly and telling her she has to call to ask permission before coming by and finally seems to getting through to her that there will be no us going forward.
She has said that she will drag the divorce out for as long as possible, but so far has been compliant. The worst part of all this is telling my daughter that we are getting a divorce and why, followed closely by her begging me to give her mom another chance. I am not sure I would have been afforded the same consideration if I was the one who was cheating.
TLDR: A lot of unkind things were said but she has been served and has moved out. Divorce is next with me hoping mediation is reasonable and I don’t get screwed in the end.
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Comments
On his daughter:

I think it was just a gut reaction. In the weeks that have passed, and the more she understands what has happened, the more irritated she is becoming with her mom.

On his wife:

I loved my wife. I, and others, found her to be stunning (she looks like Linda Carter). Now, knowing that she affaired down so low makes her a non-entity that I could never look at the same way again. No amount of counseling is going to change the way I see her.

Some Q&A:
Something had to transpire prior to her hotel excursion. There's no way she decided in a matter of a few days to pick and cheat with AP.

Getting sex is easier for women. Maybe they were involved in a EA before and this was a culmination. I don't really know nor do I care, unless it benefits me during the divorce.
From what I know all of her friends have cut her off. They are trying like hell to save their own marriages that they are turning on each other.

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After vacating your house, is she feeling any remorse? Or is she still thinking you need to get over it as of today. Going NC with WW should be easy since daughter is an adult. What desperate measures has she taken that you haven't mentioned in your post and comments?

She was stoic and held her position right up until she was served. Then she became visibly upset and resorted to begging, pleading and bargaining.

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Really? No Tears? No emotional meltdown?
I am sorry that happened to you.
How can she not see what she has done to you? The whole way this went is so surreal, from start to finish. It is like she has a manic or hypomanic episode.You are doing the right thing by divorcing her. Sorry, but there is no love in her anymore.
You, sir, have not lost your self-respect and have made the right choice. Take care of yourself.

Plenty of tears, begging and bargaining after the fact, but that maybe just optics. Maybe she fell out of love and now is regretting her new station in life. She's an attractive woman, she will have plenty of men willing to date her, but I won't be one of them.

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Wow! Amazing poker face she really thought she owned you.

She was confident, overly so.

If you ever feel the need to go nuclear, you could reveal the affair to her coworkers. I but that would be a disaster.

I want her employed so I don't have to pay maintenance even if it was while she was between jobs.
There is a woman at her work who has always looked at me in an inviting way so maybe I will try to date her after this is over. That would be interesting on a couple of levels.

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**Final Update Starts Here*\*
Original Deleted from offmychest, retrieved with Reveddit
UPDATE 2 - I am a loss as to what to do with my (54M) wife (51F) Hall past request - 12th September 2023
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There is not much to report. We are in the process of getting a divorce, however where we live, we must be legally separated for 1 year.
My STBXW has said that she will give me whatever I want in the divorce if I agree to attend marriage counseling, but I am not interested. There was a bit of back-and-forth while we worked out what separation looks like in everyday life from this point forward. As a result, we have only just agreed to the confines of the legal separation, so as we move towards defining the divorce language, maybe my stance may change.
The house was a premarital asset, so she has no claim to it. The only things she could go after are my pension, vehicles and vacation property but I would counter that she has lived rent free for 20+ years and has her own money plus inheritance from her father. I may have offer a top up in retirement as she was a stay-at-home mom while our daughter was young, but that would be the most at this point.
I received a lot of messages about her friend group and my daughter, so I will clear up and misconceptions now.
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My daughter isn’t taking her mother side. She has always been a mommas girl but she is very unhappy with her mom right now. Her initial reaction was just shock and held out hope that we would work through any issues and stay together. Now she accepts that is not going to happen she has been limiting her interactions with her, but at the end of the day, she is still her mom.
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The friend group husbands were upset at the level of complicity of their wives in aiding and abetting the contact/cheating and made them cut off my wife, but that seems to have been forgotten at this point. The BFF was the ringleader and seems to have taken perverse pleasure in actively creating scenarios where they would be in contact. At the very least encouraging to the point of causing her husband to question her motives. It turns out she didn’t like me at all and this was her way of ‘sticking it too me’. I guess she wins.
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The BFF’s husband said that there were some sexting in his wife's messages but said he is dealing with it. We did meet up a with him being apologetic for his wife’s complicity, but it is not his fault and just want to move on.
I have decided not to date anyone for awhile. I will not be getting married ever again.
So that is it. I doubt I will post again unless she wins the lottery and I find it my heart to forgive her…
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For u/angelposts and his crew at AmITheAngel, she couldn't be pregnant with twins because she had a hysterectomy, and that is not how women work
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Reminder - I am not the original poster.

My now Ex fiancé has been in and out of Detox for the last 6 months for alcohol and always immediately begins drinking again. We are(were) in a co-dependent relationship and she would escalate the lengths she went to get alcohol from me, starting from promises of "one last hoora" then straight to rehab, to eventually threatening to kill herself if I did not do as she said (the cops were called twice over this in the last 3 months). Prior to her most recent visit to the hospital she was diagnosed with "Alcohol Induced Psychosis" and in Detox they either diagnosed or hinted that she might have Borderline Personality Disorder.
On Friday of last week (April 13) I told her I was done and that she had 5 days to leave after which I would begin the eviction process and she left of her own accord Sunday night I believe (I had the police escort me so that I could get clothes and my work computer and stay at my parents house) and blocked her number on my phone. I had considered getting a temporary restraining order because this was immediately after she threatened suicide if didn't do what she told me to do. She has been unemployed for over 4 years due to back issues that she remedied with Alcohol so she did not contribute anything regarding the household aside from Debt.
(note: while she did threaten to kill herself, she did so in a way that there wasn't any action the police could take because she is good at using the correct words to avoid an IVC)
On Monday (April 15) she sent a text to my mother saying that she got a ride and "did not see any reason to return except to check on [our cat]" and I went back to the house to verify that she was gone and I took the battery out of the door lock (I did not know if she took a key with her) and I did not hear much from her except for direct messages on programs I have downloaded but selfdom used, one asking me to unblock her so that she could tell me her progress in getting into a rehab, I did not respond.
On Friday of this past week (April 19) my parents came to help separate our stuff and boxed up her clothes and possessions over the weekend including gifts that I had given to her over the years. We intend to put them into a storage unit within a few miles of the house and pay for a number of months (we are not petty, my mother had even offered to fly her across the country if that's what she needed) while she gets everything figured out.
She threatened to take us to court ("how do you think the judge is going to feel about this"?) and we cut contact with her, I have a retainer through my workplace that I will be contacting tomorrow (I have to get my information from HR to give to the legal service)
My legal question is that since she has been gone for over a week now, do I still need to file a formal Eviction notice with the magistrate? (I currently do not intend to let her in without the police telling me to), and is there anything else I need to worry about?
Other notes:

• She knows my Reddit Username and will likely see this
• I will not keep our cat from her and am 100% willing to part with her once my ex finds stable living
• She is NOT on the mortgage, she has paid zero house bills since moving in with me

As the title suggests, I had to defend myself (and my cat) against my ex boyfriend a little less than a year ago. Our only contact since October has through email since he had blocked my number and all my accounts on social media.
We began dating in November 2022. It was a good relationship in the beginning and I still mourn those days. Anyway, around April 2023, he was coincidentally struggling in life since he began having severe complications related to asthma. He also got into a car accident where a teenager hit him and totaled his car. We got him another car and I said he was welcome to live with me. He took me up on the offer.
So, I let him live with me and my mom early, but it felt like a progression I was comfortable with since his adoptive parents are very critical of him for mostly illegitimate reasons (To give you an idea, they are homophobic and believe in Young Earth Creationism). It seemed like the timing of the medical issues and the end of his lease were solid reasons it made more sense to just live together.
We began fighting very badly and very often once he moved in with me and my mom. On one occasion, he slit his wrist with a pairing knife when he was upset at me. A week later, I spat in his face during an argument when he started calling me names. Then, he threw a drink at me when I got out of his car. I would often tell him “this isn’t working” when we would fight, but it was too late to have that realization since he lived with me now. I should have known it wasn’t going to smooth out and would only get worse.
Our worst fight was after we started arguing in the car one day. He pulled over abruptly and parked his car, walked around to my side, and presumably wanted to pull me out. I had locked the door so he began punching his car, leaving several dents. I told him to take me home, then to get all his things and leave forever.
He finally drove me home, I was walking him to my room and told him get your shit and leave. My cat was sitting on the bed, so he grabbed my cat by the scruff and by the skin on his back, making my cat scream. I was so alarmed at what he was doing that I swung the metal water bottle I was holding and it ended up hitting him on the forehead. He began bleeding and grabbed my arms, then we wrestled onto the bed. My mom intervened and got us off of each other and began tending to his facial wound.
My mom bandaged up his wound and took him to the ER. He was discharged with pain meds, a tetanus shot, and he did not need stitches.
We made peace with our fight later that day, which is weird in hindsight. We stayed together and talked things out with my mom as a mediator.
I had blocked this fight out of my memory, but the memories came back when I was in therapy in February. I had thought I was the instigator based on how my ex retold the events, but I was trying to keep myself and my cat safe. He admitted he wanted to strangle my cat so I’d have nothing left in my life. Still, he shifted the blame to me and made me doubt my own perception of the events by making me admit I wanted to hurt him.
My ex says several medical issues became more prevalent in his life after this. I’m unsure if I believe that entirely. He has health anxiety and will scan his body daily looking for any pain or discomfort to address; He also has Ehlers-Danlos syndrome and normally struggled with the joint pain, hyper mobility, and fast heart rate the syndrome causes. However, he states his condition worsened after I hit him with the bottle to make him let go of my cat. I held this against myself for a really long time.
We stayed together after this fight, but then he broke up with me later that month. We got back together two days later, then he broke up with me in August. We got back together in September, then we broke up at the end of October. The cycle of heartbreak and wanting him back took a massive toll on my mental health, but things have mostly been done since October.
In December, he sent me several violent emails about how I deserve to get sexually assaulted, get AIDS, how he thinks I’m an evil person, how he doesn’t regret trying to kill my cat. In the email, he again admitted he was trying to kill my cat. He later called and apologized and I felt sympathy for him.
We met in December for sex, but he ended up blocking me on New Year’s Eve. I was devastated.
Then, he reached out and we talked for a week in January when I felt lonely, and we did meet to have sex twice, but he accidentally hurt my feelings and I got upset, so he blocked me from contacting him again.
Weirdly, he unblocked me on Facebook last month, so I messaged him to ask why. He said he just wanted to find out who my employer is due to being nosy. I told him what I do as a paralegal. He blocked me after that conversation.
Last week, he filed a police report against me regarding that fight and I’m unsure what I am supposed to say to the police about what happened. I am distrustful of cops and I know they ask leading questions that are intended to incriminate the answerer.
I work as a paralegal, but I’m new to my firm and I’m not comfortable asking one of them for a referral for a domestic dispute this early into working there.
So, does anyone feel like taking this question on given our crazy circumstances? 😓

I've looked at similar crash problems but I can't tell how to fix nor identify the problem, and I don't have any experience with Java coding so I don't know how to fix it. My mods start to load, then like 15% way into loading I get sent to the launcher with this error message:
The game crashed whilst initializing game
Error: org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.throwables.MixinTransformerError: An unexpected critical error was encountered
Exit code: -1
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\/\/Crash report:\/\/
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---- Minecraft Crash Report ----
// Daisy, daisy...
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Time: 2024-04-20 13:37:41
Description: Initializing game
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org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.throwables.MixinTransformerError: An unexpected critical error was encountered

at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinProcessor.applyMixins([MixinProcessor.java:392](https://MixinProcessor.java:392)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinTransformer.transformClass([MixinTransformer.java:250](https://MixinTransformer.java:250)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.service.modlauncher.MixinTransformationHandler.processClass([MixinTransformationHandler.java:131](https://MixinTransformationHandler.java:131)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.launch.MixinLaunchPluginLegacy.processClass([MixinLaunchPluginLegacy.java:131](https://MixinLaunchPluginLegacy.java:131)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.serviceapi.ILaunchPluginService.processClassWithFlags([ILaunchPluginService.java:156](https://ILaunchPluginService.java:156)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:10.0.9+10.0.9+main.dcd20f30\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchPluginHandler.offerClassNodeToPlugins([LaunchPluginHandler.java:88](https://LaunchPluginHandler.java:88)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.ClassTransformer.transform([ClassTransformer.java:120](https://ClassTransformer.java:120)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.TransformingClassLoader.maybeTransformClassBytes([TransformingClassLoader.java:50](https://TransformingClassLoader.java:50)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.readerToClass([ModuleClassLoader.java:113](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:113)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.lambda$findClass$15([ModuleClassLoader.java:219](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:219)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.loadFromModule([ModuleClassLoader.java:229](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:229)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.findClass([ModuleClassLoader.java:219](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:219)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.loadClass([ModuleClassLoader.java:135](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:135)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at java.lang.ClassLoader.loadClass([ClassLoader.java:525](https://ClassLoader.java:525)) \~\[?:?\] {} at net.minecraft.client.renderer.RenderStateShard.([RenderStateShard.java:126](https://RenderStateShard.java:126)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading,pl:accesstransformer:B} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.GlyphRenderTypes.m\_284354\_([GlyphRenderTypes.java:22](https://GlyphRenderTypes.java:22)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontSet.m\_232556\_([FontSet.java:165](https://FontSet.java:165)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.glyphs.SpecialGlyphs.m\_213604\_([SpecialGlyphs.java:53](https://SpecialGlyphs.java:53)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontSet.m\_95071\_([FontSet.java:53](https://FontSet.java:53)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontManager.m\_95009\_([FontManager.java:63](https://FontManager.java:63)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.Util.m\_137469\_([Util.java:359](https://Util.java:359)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontManager.([FontManager.java:63](https://FontManager.java:63)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.Minecraft.([Minecraft.java:475](https://Minecraft.java:475)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:mixin,pl:accesstransformer:B,pl:runtimedistcleaner:A,re:classloading,pl:accesstransformer:B,pl:mixin:A,pl:runtimedistcleaner:A} at net.minecraft.client.main.Main.main([Main.java:182](https://Main.java:182)) \~\[1.20.1-forge-47.2.0.jar:?\] {re:classloading,pl:runtimedistcleaner:A} at jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke0(Native Method) \~\[?:?\] {} at jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke([NativeMethodAccessorImpl.java:77](https://NativeMethodAccessorImpl.java:77)) \~\[?:?\] {} at jdk.internal.reflect.DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.invoke([DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.java:43](https://DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.java:43)) \~\[?:?\] {} at java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke([Method.java:568](https://Method.java:568)) \~\[?:?\] {} at net.minecraftforge.fml.loading.targets.CommonLaunchHandler.runTarget([CommonLaunchHandler.java:111](https://CommonLaunchHandler.java:111)) \~\[fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar:?\] {} at net.minecraftforge.fml.loading.targets.CommonLaunchHandler.clientService([CommonLaunchHandler.java:99](https://CommonLaunchHandler.java:99)) \~\[fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar:?\] {} at net.minecraftforge.fml.loading.targets.CommonClientLaunchHandler.lambda$makeService$0([CommonClientLaunchHandler.java:25](https://CommonClientLaunchHandler.java:25)) \~\[fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchServiceHandlerDecorator.launch([LaunchServiceHandlerDecorator.java:30](https://LaunchServiceHandlerDecorator.java:30)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchServiceHandler.launch([LaunchServiceHandler.java:53](https://LaunchServiceHandler.java:53)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchServiceHandler.launch([LaunchServiceHandler.java:71](https://LaunchServiceHandler.java:71)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at [cpw.mods.modlauncher.Launcher.run](https://cpw.mods.modlauncher.Launcher.run)([Launcher.java:108](https://Launcher.java:108)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.Launcher.main([Launcher.java:78](https://Launcher.java:78)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.BootstrapLaunchConsumer.accept([BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:26](https://BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:26)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.BootstrapLaunchConsumer.accept([BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:23](https://BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:23)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.bootstraplauncher.BootstrapLauncher.main([BootstrapLauncher.java:141](https://BootstrapLauncher.java:141)) \~\[bootstraplauncher-1.1.2.jar:?\] {} 

Caused by: org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.throwables.ClassMetadataNotFoundException: net.minecraft.client.gui.GuiComponent

at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinPreProcessorStandard.transformMethod([MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:754](https://MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:754)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinPreProcessorStandard.transform([MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:739](https://MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:739)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinPreProcessorStandard.attach([MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:310](https://MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:310)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinPreProcessorStandard.createContextFor([MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:280](https://MixinPreProcessorStandard.java:280)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinInfo.createContextFor([MixinInfo.java:1288](https://MixinInfo.java:1288)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinApplicatorStandard.apply([MixinApplicatorStandard.java:292](https://MixinApplicatorStandard.java:292)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.TargetClassContext.apply([TargetClassContext.java:383](https://TargetClassContext.java:383)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.TargetClassContext.applyMixins([TargetClassContext.java:365](https://TargetClassContext.java:365)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinProcessor.applyMixins([MixinProcessor.java:363](https://MixinProcessor.java:363)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} ... 38 more 

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Thread: Render thread
Stacktrace:

at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinProcessor.applyMixins([MixinProcessor.java:392](https://MixinProcessor.java:392)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.mixin.transformer.MixinTransformer.transformClass([MixinTransformer.java:250](https://MixinTransformer.java:250)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.service.modlauncher.MixinTransformationHandler.processClass([MixinTransformationHandler.java:131](https://MixinTransformationHandler.java:131)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at org.spongepowered.asm.launch.MixinLaunchPluginLegacy.processClass([MixinLaunchPluginLegacy.java:131](https://MixinLaunchPluginLegacy.java:131)) \~\[mixin-0.8.5.jar:0.8.5+Jenkins-b310.git-155314e6e91465dad727e621a569906a410cd6f4\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.serviceapi.ILaunchPluginService.processClassWithFlags([ILaunchPluginService.java:156](https://ILaunchPluginService.java:156)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:10.0.9+10.0.9+main.dcd20f30\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchPluginHandler.offerClassNodeToPlugins([LaunchPluginHandler.java:88](https://LaunchPluginHandler.java:88)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.ClassTransformer.transform([ClassTransformer.java:120](https://ClassTransformer.java:120)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.TransformingClassLoader.maybeTransformClassBytes([TransformingClassLoader.java:50](https://TransformingClassLoader.java:50)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.readerToClass([ModuleClassLoader.java:113](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:113)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.lambda$findClass$15([ModuleClassLoader.java:219](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:219)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.loadFromModule([ModuleClassLoader.java:229](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:229)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.findClass([ModuleClassLoader.java:219](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:219)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.cl.ModuleClassLoader.loadClass([ModuleClassLoader.java:135](https://ModuleClassLoader.java:135)) \~\[securejarhandler-2.1.10.jar:?\] {} at java.lang.ClassLoader.loadClass([ClassLoader.java:525](https://ClassLoader.java:525)) \~\[?:?\] {} at net.minecraft.client.renderer.RenderStateShard.([RenderStateShard.java:126](https://RenderStateShard.java:126)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading,pl:accesstransformer:B} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.GlyphRenderTypes.m\_284354\_([GlyphRenderTypes.java:22](https://GlyphRenderTypes.java:22)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontSet.m\_232556\_([FontSet.java:165](https://FontSet.java:165)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.glyphs.SpecialGlyphs.m\_213604\_([SpecialGlyphs.java:53](https://SpecialGlyphs.java:53)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontSet.m\_95071\_([FontSet.java:53](https://FontSet.java:53)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontManager.m\_95009\_([FontManager.java:63](https://FontManager.java:63)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.Util.m\_137469\_([Util.java:359](https://Util.java:359)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.gui.font.FontManager.([FontManager.java:63](https://FontManager.java:63)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:classloading} at net.minecraft.client.Minecraft.([Minecraft.java:475](https://Minecraft.java:475)) \~\[client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar%23168!/:?\] {re:mixin,pl:accesstransformer:B,pl:runtimedistcleaner:A,re:classloading,pl:accesstransformer:B,pl:mixin:A,pl:runtimedistcleaner:A} 

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Stacktrace:

at net.minecraft.client.main.Main.main([Main.java:182](https://Main.java:182)) \~\[1.20.1-forge-47.2.0.jar:?\] {re:classloading,pl:runtimedistcleaner:A} at jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke0(Native Method) \~\[?:?\] {} at jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke([NativeMethodAccessorImpl.java:77](https://NativeMethodAccessorImpl.java:77)) \~\[?:?\] {} at jdk.internal.reflect.DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.invoke([DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.java:43](https://DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.java:43)) \~\[?:?\] {} at java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke([Method.java:568](https://Method.java:568)) \~\[?:?\] {} at net.minecraftforge.fml.loading.targets.CommonLaunchHandler.runTarget([CommonLaunchHandler.java:111](https://CommonLaunchHandler.java:111)) \~\[fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar:?\] {} at net.minecraftforge.fml.loading.targets.CommonLaunchHandler.clientService([CommonLaunchHandler.java:99](https://CommonLaunchHandler.java:99)) \~\[fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar:?\] {} at net.minecraftforge.fml.loading.targets.CommonClientLaunchHandler.lambda$makeService$0([CommonClientLaunchHandler.java:25](https://CommonClientLaunchHandler.java:25)) \~\[fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchServiceHandlerDecorator.launch([LaunchServiceHandlerDecorator.java:30](https://LaunchServiceHandlerDecorator.java:30)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchServiceHandler.launch([LaunchServiceHandler.java:53](https://LaunchServiceHandler.java:53)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.LaunchServiceHandler.launch([LaunchServiceHandler.java:71](https://LaunchServiceHandler.java:71)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at [cpw.mods.modlauncher.Launcher.run](https://cpw.mods.modlauncher.Launcher.run)([Launcher.java:108](https://Launcher.java:108)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.Launcher.main([Launcher.java:78](https://Launcher.java:78)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.BootstrapLaunchConsumer.accept([BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:26](https://BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:26)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.modlauncher.BootstrapLaunchConsumer.accept([BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:23](https://BootstrapLaunchConsumer.java:23)) \~\[modlauncher-10.0.9.jar:?\] {} at cpw.mods.bootstraplauncher.BootstrapLauncher.main([BootstrapLauncher.java:141](https://BootstrapLauncher.java:141)) \~\[bootstraplauncher-1.1.2.jar:?\] {} 

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-- System Details --
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Minecraft Version: 1.20.1 Minecraft Version ID: 1.20.1 Operating System: Windows 11 (amd64) version 10.0 Java Version: 17.0.8, Microsoft Java VM Version: OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM (mixed mode), Microsoft Memory: 345561464 bytes (329 MiB) / 805306368 bytes (768 MiB) up to 2147483648 bytes (2048 MiB) CPUs: 16 Processor Vendor: AuthenticAMD Processor Name: AMD Ryzen 7 6800H with Radeon Graphics Identifier: AuthenticAMD Family 25 Model 68 Stepping 1 Microarchitecture: Zen 3 Frequency (GHz): 3.19 Number of physical packages: 1 Number of physical CPUs: 8 Number of logical CPUs: 16 Graphics card #0 name: AMD Radeon(TM) Graphics Graphics card #0 vendor: Advanced Micro Devices, Inc. (0x1002) Graphics card #0 VRAM (MB): 512.00 Graphics card #0 deviceId: 0x1681 Graphics card #0 versionInfo: DriverVersion=31.0.12024.2005 Graphics card #1 name: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3050 Ti Laptop GPU Graphics card #1 vendor: NVIDIA (0x10de) Graphics card #1 VRAM (MB): 4095.00 Graphics card #1 deviceId: 0x25a0 Graphics card #1 versionInfo: DriverVersion=31.0.15.5222 Memory slot #0 capacity (MB): 8192.00 Memory slot #0 clockSpeed (GHz): 4.80 Memory slot #0 type: Unknown Memory slot #1 capacity (MB): 8192.00 Memory slot #1 clockSpeed (GHz): 4.80 Memory slot #1 type: Unknown Virtual memory max (MB): 38829.47 Virtual memory used (MB): 18979.02 Swap memory total (MB): 23216.38 Swap memory used (MB): 827.42 JVM Flags: 8 total; -XX:HeapDumpPath=MojangTricksIntelDriversForPerformance\_javaw.exe\_minecraft.exe.heapdump -Xmx2G -XX:+UnlockExperimentalVMOptions -XX:+UseG1GC -XX:G1NewSizePercent=20 -XX:G1ReservePercent=20 -XX:MaxGCPauseMillis=50 -XX:G1HeapRegionSize=32M Launched Version: 1.20.1-forge-47.2.0 Backend library: LWJGL version 3.3.1 build 7 Backend API: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3050 Ti Laptop GPU/PCIe/SSE2 GL version 4.6.0 NVIDIA 552.22, NVIDIA Corporation Window size:  GL Caps: Using framebuffer using OpenGL 3.2 GL debug messages: Using VBOs: Yes Is Modded: Definitely; Client brand changed to 'forge' Type: Client (map\_client.txt) CPU: 16x AMD Ryzen 7 6800H with Radeon Graphics ModLauncher: 10.0.9+10.0.9+main.dcd20f30 ModLauncher launch target: forgeclient ModLauncher naming: srg ModLauncher services: mixin-0.8.5.jar mixin PLUGINSERVICE eventbus-6.0.5.jar eventbus PLUGINSERVICE fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar slf4jfixer PLUGINSERVICE fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar object\_holder\_definalize PLUGINSERVICE fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar runtime\_enum\_extender PLUGINSERVICE fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar capability\_token\_subclass PLUGINSERVICE accesstransformers-8.0.4.jar accesstransformer PLUGINSERVICE fmlloader-1.20.1-47.2.0.jar runtimedistcleaner PLUGINSERVICE modlauncher-10.0.9.jar mixin TRANSFORMATIONSERVICE modlauncher-10.0.9.jar fml TRANSFORMATIONSERVICE FML Language Providers: minecraft@1.0 lowcodefml@null javafml@null Mod List: client-1.20.1-20230612.114412-srg.jar Minecraft minecraft 1.20.1 NONE Manifest: a1:d4:5e:04:4f:d3:d6:e0:7b:37:97:cf:77:b0:de:ad:4a:47:ce:8c:96:49:5f:0a:cf:8c:ae:b2:6d:4b:8a:3f forge-1.20.1-47.2.0-universal.jar Forge forge 47.2.0 NONE Manifest: 84:ce:76:e8:45:35:e4:0e:63:86:df:47:59:80:0f:67:6c:c1:5f:6e:5f:4d:b3:54:47:1a:9f:7f:ed:5e:f2:90 

ok so i used to be friends w this guy M(17) almost 18 for 4 years, lets call him D. he introduced me to this girl he started dating (call her A) who I didn’t know her age at the time I just assumed she was around our age (im 16 turning 17 this year) and everything was fine we all got along, until one day me and D got into an argument because he was shit talking A for leaving our group chat, calling her a cunt, asshole, etc etc. ofc i defended her because wtf is ur issue with this girl bro. i had some stuff along the lines of “your mom did a terrible job raising you” and he got super pissed, which on my end i did end up saying a lot more than i should’ve but after this other incident that happened i dont regret anything i said. we made up a few weeks after, everything was fine for a while until one day he told me “oh yea i broke up with her btw” like just out of nowhere it sounded like he didn’t give a shit too. things were pretty awkward for a while and I never really spoke to A back then so I didn’t really know how to feel. fast forward about a week later, A messages me and we start chatting for a bit. A few minutes later she tells me that D had been treating her like shit, insulting her and getting mad at her for the dumbest things(yes they still spoke to each other after being broken up.) At first I couldn’t believe it, because you know he’s my best friend how could he do that? plus he’s been super friendly with me lately so I was pretty confused. I kept listening then she started sending me screenshots. A wave of sadness came through me, I was disappointed. He told me he had changed and I believed it, I felt like an idiot tbh lol. I told A to block him, she was already having a hard time at home she doesn’t need anymore negativity in her life. She blocked him, the first thing D did was make smurf accounts to harass her on instagram, saying shit like “you did this.” basically just blaming her for everything and playing victim. They “made up” and she unblocked him on everything but right after she does he starts this whole argument about how manipulative she is and how everything is her fault and that he’s not in the wrong in any way. I think it’s time to tell u how old she is, shes 15. This guy is almost 18, threatening a 15 yr old girl, he literally told her that he’d “cut himself 100 times” if she blocked him. like what the fuck is wrong with you??? He literally manipulates, gaslights, insults her and blames literally everything on this poor girl. Then right after he has the audacity to say “pop a tit for me would ya” I couldn’t fucking believe how much of a piece of shit this guy was. I can’t believe I ever trusted him. It’s like a whole cycle. argument, lovebombing, asks for pics, and then again. I keep telling her to block this guy she doesn’t need him in her life he’s only fucking up her mental health. She’s just so attached to this guy for some reason. She doesn’t even know what he looks like and he has a whole file saved on his computer of photos of her. That’s why I think she’s being groomed. I have a feeling he’ll drop her the moment he turns 18 so he won’t get him trouble for having pics of a 15 yr old.
He also blocked me after this little fight we had calling me a bad friend because what he said to me was fucking weird and made me uncomfortable but as always he plays the victim.
I’m still trying to get A to block him for good but then found out he threatened to leak her pics to her mom. (he stalks her mom on facebook) he’s a fucking weirdo blackmailing a 15 yr old being almost 18.
not sure what else I can do for her, she vents to me everyday and my answer is always to block him but now he’s threatening her lol.

Hi Reddit! It’s my first post on here, and i have a major question that needs an answer! To add some context;
In December of 2022, I got into a physical altercation with my ex-best friend, which ended up in me getting tackled by a police officer (I’m a 5’0” 100lb 19 year old female currently/during the altercation as well), as well as having a seizure in the cop car due to the impact of my head hitting the ground and catching a simple assault charge. I woke up in the hospital with a summons from the court as well. My point is not about the fight itself, but rather my almost two year long frustrations with the court on how they’ve handled my case. I hired a public defender and paid a 200 dollar fee (basic requirements in NJ) and I’ve attended all of my court meetings, and the first judge that handled my case had requested discovery. The only discovery available is the officer’s body cam. They’ve tried to reach out to the victim to attain discovery, and still have yet to get an answer from her. The first judge motioned to file a Hollup order (dismissal due to insufficient discovery, or lack of), but never signed off on the paperwork. For some reason, the judge disappeared and never came back to deal with my case, so a new judge was appointed. My last few meetings with the judge and my public defender have been an absolute whirlwind of confusion and frustration since my public defender won’t even speak to me unless it was to tell me he has to see if the prosecutor has been able to obtain discovery (I had to speak to a court clerk during the zoom meeting to even get his contact information). I’ve only met with my PD twice throughout all of my proceedings. I thought that since they haven’t been able to get a hold of the “victim” to obtain discovery after almost two years, my PD would use that to our advantage and push to have the order signed and my charges dropped like the two judges have mentioned doing. They have failed to sign the order for quite a while now, and I feel like I’m just being dragged through the dirt. To also add a little bit of extra-ness to the story, the “victim” also contacted me through instagram asking me if I’ve been getting court letters. I did NOT reply, and took screenshots of how she unblocked me and what she asked, and sent it over to my PD since this is something huge (she’s contacting me when she isn’t supposed to). It’s been almost 4 whole weeks since I’ve sent my PD the photos of her text as well as a paragraph explaining the context of the photos and if there was anything he could possibly do to move things forward finally. It’s been crickets… I need genuine legal advice. Do I call the public defender office and request a new PD? Is there something that my PD can do? Is my PD not doing enough ?(I’m worried about my sixth amendment being violated since It’s starting to seem like inefficient counsel/representation). I need help!!!!!!
sorry for the long paragraph, but there wasn’t a simple way to explain everything..

EDIT: He has unblocked me and wants to sort things out and has apologized. Most people would have stopped at blocking and that's it. The guy seems decent from his responses, and this post is intended to be a reminder for people to watch for licensing of files, not a targeting scheme.
I found u/C******S******M selling my remix of u/Damascus-2a's handbrakes (no problem, the license is CC Attribution, so you can sell if you literally just give credit to the creators.)
So I gave him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he didn't know that. Left a comment on his most recent gunaccessoryvendors post, and no contact with either myself or Damascus, removed post, blocked communications.
Well unlucky for him I screenshotted it, so I was able to open and check his account without being logged into mine, and it went from benefit-of-the-doubt to anger... There are multiple posts that he would hide from my account. (Visible when logged out, not visible from being logged in) and so when I tried to message him nothing worked.
One one hand, I'm very honored to make something good enough for someone to steal. On the other, how the fuck is it that hard to tell people who made the design? It's not against the license to sell it, why do you need to steal ownership?¿
Edit 2: Issue resolved, he is a genuine guy and was new to selling. For anyone new to selling 3D files, make sure to ask the creators and don't block them when they try to contact you at first.

Hi, all First, this probably belongs in LibationIsAwesomeTechnicalSupport or some such but I can't find that :-/ I've seen questions in both audible and audiobooks and so I'm crossposting to at least get on the right page first. I have been using Libation 11.1.0 Chardonnay Windows for a few months now and have mostly cranked through the library. [More on those questions later, especially if I can put them in the right place.] Suddenly, however, Libation fails to start and "is not responding" and needs a good killing. I tried 11.3.6 and got the "Windows has protected your PC" error; I went through the Explorer => file => properties => "Unblock" steps and am back to locked up, and meanwhile I tried unblocking the 11.1.0 files to no avail. So apparently I have a very unhappy Libation-Windows-Audible something and would love to figure it out. Any pointers to how to dig in and/or where best to ask? TIA D

This is about to be the most gargled rant that has ever spawn from my finger tips...
My life's a hot mess. Attracted a narcissist for a husband, was raised BY Narcissists... very messy and abusive marriage. Behind on filing taxes(currently working on this), filling for 2023 online with turbo tax by myself because I HAVE NO FUCKING LIFE SKILLS. Getting complimented by the "tax experts" because apparently I am fucking smart and actually do have a good head on my shoulders...when it's not threatening to fall off. Nsister mutters that she wouldn't be able to do all of this alone. I silently start to realize my potential... and how fucking smart I am!
But wait...there it is, another fucking bump in the road after I've already hit a Thousand. I need his fucking ssn/itin... to fucking file online... now I have to call him and see if he's willing to give me his itin OR find out if he even has one...or just have him lie to me...
YAAAYYY.... the man that abused me and took advantage of me...just YAY. Do I wanna unblock his number? NO.
ALSO why are there so many toxic Assholes!?! One of the tax experts were very conniving and tried to trick me into skipping the review part that he was supposed to help me with and another just completely ignored me and exited the chat...
🙈 my nsister just visited and I have to clock into work. I really don't have time for all of this. Wtf man... AAAAHHHRRRRGGGG!!!!
😭😭😭😭

I went to a countryside trip with a guy (M28) (I've been in off n on contact with him for just over 10 years) right before I met my current boyfriend. When I first met this guy (M28) in college, he used to say that he likes me such n such, and I never gave him the chance because he's not my type at all. But he never gave up and used to wait for me all the time with snacks and other things after every class. I honestly regret of not blocking him right there and then, but I didn't see the issue at that time. Eventually I went to overseas to study, and I occasionally chatted with him discussing about the new environment and stuff. Even then he wouldn't stop pursuing me, and I know it's my fault for not telling him to stop and it probably seemed like I was interested in him. He also helped me with a lot of things and I just started to feel like he's a safe person to talk too. So I came back to my country last summer and he happened to find out, and we met. He was a bit different like more grown up but I still would never be with him, and the thought of it would give me the ick. I wholeheartedly regret going on that trip because I will admit as a 26 year old I was still naive and a bit too trusting of him. I just went on that trip to see the mountains, which is the highest mountain in our country, and I haven't been in my home country for a long time so I really wanted to go to the countryside, and I trusted him that he wouldn't do anything sexual (stupid I know). His dad booked the hotel and it was only one room. Unexpected things happened so we got short on money, so I didn't think of anything else and just stayed in the same room with him. Separate beds. So while I was sleeping all of a sudden I feel his hands around me. I was half asleep and it all happened fast when he got on top of me and did it while I was telling him to stop and pushed him, he even finished inside me and that just made me so mad and I felt so stupid for going there with him. I felt disgusted and I still do and hate myself for it. Because I know it was my own fault and my own decision and I have no idea what the hell I was thinking. Luckily I found a pharmacy and took plan B right away. It still makes me feel disgusted when I think about it and I hate that I can't go back and stop myself going on that trip. I got really mad at him and didn't talk to him the rest of the trip and blocked him ever since.
So I met my bf (30M) not long after that trip, and we became excluvise pretty quick. We are currently in a long distance relationship. We started talking about a lot of things to do together in the future, the bond really got stronger and I really want to stay with him. Last month, my bf asked me who I went to that trip with. I eventually told him everything about what happened and told him I know it was my mistake and I should've never went with him, I was so stupid and that I hate myself for it, and I didn't sleep with him because I wanted. But he doesn't believe any of that. He says no way I didn't think of anything sexual when I went on that trip, and said 'you probably knew and wanted it to sleep with him to begin with'. He also said that I am so easy and that I have no value of myself. He said if you really didn't want it, you could have booked another room, or you could've done every possible thing to push him, the body will fight for its life. Or at least you could have filed a police report to report it as a rape. I didn't think of reporting him because first of all we were kinda far, and I still needed him to go back to the city, and honestly I didn't even think of that option at that time. The more I think about it the more stupid I feel. He says since I didn't do any of this it just proves that I wanted to sleep with him, and being so easy he's just really disappointed to find out that I was this kind of person. And I agree with my bf because I should've fought, and I agree that I was so stupid and naive for going on that trip. I know that it shows a poor judgement skills. No matter how many times I say it was my fault and I hate that happened too, he doesn't listen and just says how can you go with a guy you barely know, weren't you scared, or are you already used to do this? It's been almost a month since this conversation and I can tell he can't be with me anymore, but also can't let me go because it's hard for him. He keeps saying forget about me, go on with your life and don't be stupid again. He hasn't been really talking to me. Whenever we try to talk it's him saying how disgusting and disappointed he feels, and when I ask him do you want to be together he just says idk. So as much as it hurt me, I told him I'm leaving and I can't help you to feel better because you'll never be that same person, and will never love me the same way, so it doesn't matter if I want to be with you because even if you do stay it's only because you are feeling sorry for me, and this feeling will eat you alive. Then I blocked him on social media, and it was sooo hard for me. I've been in relationships before and it was never been this hard to move on, and this whole thing just feels so bittersweet to realize that he will never see me the same way again. After 6 days, he texted me on my cell and said I will deactivate all of my accounts soon, so if you have anything to say before that, then we can talk. So I unblocked him and he said he still feels disgusted, he was truly imagining his future with me and truly loved me with no other intentions, and it just doesn't sit with him well that I was doing that kind of thing. Then it all went to the same conversation we had, "you were so stupid and easy, no value, the past matters, just because you were single doesn't mean you can go around and sleep with people, don't you have any boundaries, and just forget about me etc. He also said that our love was pure and real but you being so easy ruined it". I can tell it's really hard for him to let me go (it is for me too, I barely slept for six days and it felt like I couldn't go on for another day). He also said I never did anything to keep the relationship and it was always him doing all the work. He is either can't be with me anymore or he wants me to beg him to stay. How should I talk to him about this?
tl;dr: I (26F) went on a trip with a guy (28M) before I met my bf and slept with him, and I felt disgusted and still hate myself for it. My bf (30M) found out and now he's so disappointed in me and doesn't want to stay with me anymore, but still struggling to let me go. It's hard for me to let him go too. How should I talk to him about this?

idk if it was true grooming but my therapist had me talk about turning him in today. i don’t have much of an update in that rn i don’t even know if any kind of report has been filed yet, if there has been i think i would know tho.
i’m a 16 year old girl. at the time i met this guy i was 15 and i was at a concert where he basically hit on me, it was nice and he was not rude. plus he looked to be a senior in high school at the oldest to me and i was a sophomore so i didn’t think to hard of it. he said i was cute and stuff and i was like thank you (mind you it’s the end of a concert and my bangs are sweaty and i look gross but wtv). my friend who i was at the concert with jokingly asked if i was trying to get his number and i JOKINGLY said i wouldn’t mind his instagram and long story short, mind you this is after the short interaction i had with this guy, she goes up to him and is like “my friend wants your instagram”. so we end up exchanging them and stuff. once again i didn’t know this guy was in college at this point but when i saw his bio on insta it had a college in the name so i was like oh okay obviously he’s older and this just isn’t gonna be a thing, not like it was going to be a thing in the first place but still.
again, since he looked young to me i assumed at the older he was a sophomore in college. i feel like i even asked if he was like 19 and he said yes… but anyways. he dms me the next day and is like hey i think you’re cute but im in college and this wouldn’t work, ig at this point he realized i was in high school. i was like oh yeah that’s totally fine thank you wtv. i thought that was it, maybe he would block me maybe not either way i didn’t mind.
we stayed following each other and i remember him telling me he got some kinda alcohol warning from the college again, obviously drug when he told me this. i was just like man okay i hope you’re good, cus wtf i’m 15. i honestly don’t know if he knew i was 15 but he knew i was in high school. blah blah blah. we start talking more we are friendly and then things get kinda odd. he calls me hot and stuff. we have each others snaps. we are like 100% flirting with each other. im so clueless and stupid with this stuff because i never even understand what’s going on in the moment when it comes to something like this so i didn’t even think of any of this as that bad.
eventually we share nudes. we did this on three or four separate occasions.
and btw i knew this guy from october of 23 to january 24. my birthday was in november so i turned 16 but he stayed the same age throughout this. that age, i found out, was 21. he knew i was 16 at this point and that the first time the nudes were sent was when i was 15. i mean it was so stupid and all that. the stuff i sent wasn’t like actually graphic, i always had a bra and underwear on maybe just showing some boob or wtv tf, but i mean he sent me full on dick pics and videos at one point i think. he told me he wanted to take my virginity at one point, and i actually made a detailed post on another thread about what losing your virginity was like because for some stupid fucking reason i was thinking about it.
just so we are all aware that did NOT happen.
this whole period of time was weird for me because i had just had a death in the family and i was very disoriented and stressed due to thanksgiving and christmas and my birthday and others birthdays all at once.
sometimes he would block me or threaten to block me and at first i didn’t care or i would successfully make myself not care but eventually it got to me and it was not fun. i would get upset but he would continue to do it and then unblock me. he almost trained me to think i needed him and i know this now because ever since we have not talked at all i have had moments where im like “damn i need to talk to ‘whoever’”.
one time he blocked me for a couple days and i was honestly moving along i was still thinking about it sometimes but i was kinda realizing that ill be fine and move on and it honestly wasn’t a huge deal but suddenly he unblocks me and starts typing me. he asks how im doing and i like what the fuck are you texting me. and he’s like aren’t we friends? and all that bullshit. he’s bad. this whole thing is bad and there is SO SO SOOOOOO much more but i honestly 1. don’t have the energy to type the rest. 2. hate talking about it even though i need to talk about it and need advice and stuff and 3. i feel like ive given him to much attention in my brain.
the way it the contact ended was because u sent a huge ass paragraph calling him out this one time when he threatened/tried to block me once again for doing something small. i was not dealing with it this time.
i will post what i sent him if someone wants (obviously changing names and etc).
also he would block me over stupid stuff. like calling him a name as a joke whenever he would literally call me a whore as a joke, which i don’t care about in general.
anyways whatever. i’ll post the paragraph i sent him if you want me to. sorry. thanks. ???? idfk.

As it says on the title i saved a few clips the other day using instant replay on GForce experience, and without knowing it was being blocked by administration. When i went to check for the files in videos none of them were there so i checked the blocked list and there were the notifications saying it was blocked. So when i unblocked it i expected the files to go through and i would find all the clips in video, however, when i went over and searched for them they were no where to be found.
So my question is, are all my saved clips gone? If so, is there a way i can recover them? And if not, how do i find them on my computer?
Note: Disk space wasn't taken when i checked so I'm guessing its bad news but i hope some kind redditor can help me out wit this and give me some good news for a change.

SOLVED: I just had to delete my current Firefox profile and make a new one. Apparently some file got corrupted and now everything works.
I'm on Windows 10 22h2, up to date.
Context: On my house I access the internet on various devices, i.e., my GF's laptop, my phone, my desktop pc, etc. On the latter I mainly use Firefox, which I have also logged in on a separate profile on the laptop. In both places the account is synced with the same extensions and history and everything as well as in my android phone, except for extensions not available there.
Issue: Only on my Desktop, I run into trouble. I can't remember when or how it started, wish I could. When accessing, i.e., the epic games store I'll run into this, the same in gamejolt, or nexus mods among others.
Other issues I run into, which might be related or not, are:

• any site protected by Cloudflare will display an error message saying I need to unblock challenges.cloudfare.com to proceed.
• Some sites, like here in the Xbox website, will be completely broken, where the link to log in is broken also or here with the humble bundle website.
• Web elements like Disqus implementation is completely broken as well. It won't load in any site.

What I already tried (in no specific order):

• Resetting the windows network options.
• Starting Firefox in troubleshoot mode and in private windows.
• Changing DNS settings in windows, and in browser.
• Uninstalling Firefox with Revo, rebooting and installing Firefox again.
• Running antivirus scans with malwarebytes and win10 own antivirus protection.

What worked:

• Using any other device in my house
• Using different browser, fixed 99% of the issues, and presents new ones: I'm using Opera GX right now, I find 0 issues except for not being able to access Instagram (which, while not being an important issue, makes me wonder if it might not be related to the problems listed before in Firefox)

You might wonder, then, why this post if I have found a solution? Because it's not a solution, is a workaround. I'm trying to find how to fix this, the only idea I have is that maybe all the sites that have issues are related in some way, which my pc is blocking? Or maybe a DNS setting ?
This is all I can remember right now. I hope we can find a solution that doesn't involve formatting my pc if possible.

Just as title says. I work in a Luxembourg firm and we share clients with many American and British counsels. I have had vastly different experiences with lead counsels from the US or the UK.
But that STB team is just great, the partner is surprinsingly invested… lead counsel is leading. They read my emails… their partner reads my comments in documents I send. This is a first for me… they are proactive and nice. This filing will not be an all-nighter and i am so glad !
That’s all, going to bed not stressed about a filing for once (and wanting to join their team but that’s another story).
How about you guys ? Has any team ever impressed you on a deal?

Hey everyone! I downloaded Xmrig-6.21.2 from GitHub with my 3rd party antivirus off, Microsoft Defender off, and Microsoft Smartscreen off. I unzipped to my desktop and unblocked all the files in the Properties. I then configured the config file to my wallet and the pool address I want and saved it. When I go and click on the start cmd file, this message shows up and I'm not sure how to get it working? I appreciate any help :)