Invitation saying for 90 year old

My son has no issues with eating. Just getting him to eat anything is a battle even if he is willing to. There is times he flat out refuses to eat even preferred foods, after not eating anything else that day.
His nutritionist says he is getting what he needs and his weight to height ratio is okay. We have 1-2 peadiasure a day cut with milk from fairlife for more protein. Also multivitamins when we remember.
His nutritionist and speech therapist say there is no obvious abnormality. He is just a picky eater like most autistic children. Has feeding therapy helped in this sense or just wait it out?
Son is 3…. I know that it’s typical to be pick at this time. I only have 10 safe foods that dwindled over time from no issues with anything 1 year ago.

Stop me if you heard this one.
You have a great game design and concept and you realise that to make it you are going to have to create a company, that company is going to need the essentials which is likely a programmer at the very least possibly even an extra one and an artist.
You took this task on and you are a responsible person, you want to create the game in your head, you want to make sure the team are happy, you want to see it all come good.
But no one told you running a business was so damn hard, no one told you that when the team are not sure where things stand it's on you to find resolution, you want to design but you are spending the majority of your day managing and handling and the result is things are being missed, ideas are being lost and the overall reality is you need help.
Give the old Jedi a message and let's talk.
I have facilitated contract negotiation with publishers, handled project management, team management, managed JIRA, maintained and held all the meetings and weekly huddles, i know how to plan and execute on that plan. In short I can work with you directly or even as a consultant to help you achieve a higher standard of organzation, productivity and efficiency in your company.
How do I make this affordable? I am not giving away all my secrets in here suffice to say if any of this holds true for you and you feel like you could use someone in the role give me a DM and we will see what can be done :)

Lets just say only people that are interested in controlling earth. No more no less.
Ailens can only send 1 overpowered dude or 1 mothership if their like boring humans
Ailens that have resided here for atleast 100 years will fellow the rule below.
All the world domination people on earth can only use resources on earth. Though I think the emperor of mankind is fine with the thunder warriors.
Earth might be dead after everyone tries to claim soverighn on this plant. But hey, atleast we have 1 leader now.

I recently split on two of my friends. I had moved to a different city from them a few years back (only 2.5 hours away so no big deal). They moved in together after one needed a place to stay, and now they spend ALL their time together. Which is fine, they live together so that makes sense, but I mean they are going out places, hanging out with other people, having dinner parties, and I am NEVER invited. We were an inseparable trio. I am always the one who says “hey I’m in town” or “do you guys wanna make plans to hang out sometime”, it is rarely the other way around. I told them multiple times that just because I live a little bit away, doesn’t mean you can’t invite me to stuff, I might not be able to come every time, but I would try my best! Doesn’t matter that I said that I guess, because they still don’t invite me, so I stopped asking.
We usually communicate over Instagram so we could send memes to each other, but I couldn’t stand seeing them live so happily independently of me, so I cut them out and have split on them. It has been about a month until one of them finally reached out to say hi about a week ago, and even then it was one of the fastest conversations ever and they just stopped replying after we went back and fourth maybe 6 times. I got a voicemail from them today saying hi again. I didn’t see my phone ring so that’s why it went to VM, but even so, I don’t think I would have had the emotional energy or stability to answer my phone.
I know my one friend is just starting to reach out, but I feel angry that it has taken them (never mind my other friend who hasn’t reached out at all) a MONTH to realize I haven’t said anything to them. I’m so conflicted. I love them so much, but I am SO mad at them and have split. I want them to talk to me, but I don’t want to text or call them. I miss them, but I want to be alone. I don’t have many friends to begin with, and I feel everything and nothing over this situation all at once.

I just paid for gas on this gas stations mobile app without realizing the account it was connected to was a checking account I closed over a year ago and I don’t even have any accounts at this bank. I didn’t realize at the time because I just redownloaded this rewards app after not using it for several years
The payment didn’t decline and I was able to get gas, so what is going to happen here? Is my old bank gonna charge me an overdraft fee somehow? Or is this gas station just gonna end up taking the loss on this?

ive been vaping consistently for about a month maybe two I know dentists can tell if you vape but will they tell my parent? I go to mainly a child dentist office and am turning 16 this year my hygienists are usually cool and younger and really doubt they would say anything but im not sure about my dentist. I am in the room by myself and my mom doesnt sit with me just pays at the end and drops me off if you are a dentist or have been in the same situation please let me know how this will go Thanks!

Hello everyone. I am happy to say I got a summer tax internship at Andersen for next year(2025). I was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to excel during my internship? I really want to do good and hopefully get a full time job offer as I am graduating winter 2025. Thank you for any help

I currently started a new relationship (been with my bf for 1 year) I’m a mom of a 16 yr old boy and my bf has a 3 yr old boy. I’ve been single for a really long time and enjoy my quiet space , me and my 16 yr old are pretty much quiet as well, I surround myself with adults who are kid less or kids who are already grown. With that, I find myself getting overstimulated, little agitated and energy feeling drained when I spend time with my bf and his 3 yr old on his said weekends with his son. It’s too chaotic and I don’t know how to not overstimulate myself, it’s the yelling, the messes, the not listening and throwing tantrums and I know that’s completely normal for small children, I just can’t help catching anxiety and feeling overwhelmed by it.
I haven’t surrounded myself with young children since my son was smaller, and even before that I didn’t grow up with smaller children around. Now that I’m past that phase in my life I find myself getting irritated being in settings around smaller children. The loud noises, the screaming the crying, the messes , the tantrums overstimulate and annoy me. Feeling this way makes me feel like a complete asshole.
I’ve been putting the effort to spend time with my bf, his son and his family, but it’s been chaotic, today took a toll on me and I want to pull back on going when he invites me to family affairs on his weekends with his son at the moment. Is it okay to not want to be around that? why do I feel this way? I feel like an asshole wanting to pull away from spending QT time with my bf and his son, I know my bf will eventually notice and it would destroy me If he ever felt the energy of me not wanting to be around because it’s too much for me.
I love being a mom, I loved experiencing all phases of my son’s life and I stayed with one child for a reason.
How can I approach this in a better light?
Thank you for taking the time to read this..

Hello,
Recently, I (22NB) told my family that I would no longer be going by my deadname. I was extremely respectful about this, and my family has been aware that I go by a different name for about 3 years. Although I’ve never directly asked them to call me this preferred name, they know that all my friends, coworkers and pretty much anyone I associate with outside of my family uses this new name.
Everyone reacted very very graciously and kindly, including both my grandmas and my aunt, however my mom had a different reaction. She told me she’s “heartbroken and feeling mean spirited” and told me that “what you say is love feels like hate.” She also said she didn’t appreciate “text bombs lobbed into her life,” among other things. I did not think this was a novel thing to tell her, as she has been aware of this preferred name for quite some time.
Now, she’s asking me to write her a letter to be exchanged with her on the 15th. Frankly, I don’t see how that’s much different than a text, but I’ll play along.
My question is how do I approach this letter? Nobody except my sister is aware that I’m nonbinary, and frankly I wasn’t going to fight them on that topic because I’m not extremely dysphoric about gender, more so apathetic to it, but now I’m feeling kind of angry and tempted to stir the pot and tell my mom about my gender identity. I just want to leave this conversation having been heard, but I’ve never stood up to my mom before and I’m concerned this issue could tank our relationship. I’m no longer willing to be deadnamed, but I’m afraid she’s trying to make my identity a topic that’s up for debate and discussion. Any advice or insight into this situation is appreciated.
Thank you

Good evening. I (F21) am here on this platform to be completely transparent of my situation and how can I pay it off with little to no difficulty.
To start it off, I’m $11,308.34 in debt. Unfortunately, it will gradually increase to $15, 498. 34 or more if I don’t pay it off on time. This amount excludes student loans. I’m a college student, actively working on my TEAS to pursue nursing. I had dropped out of from a university due to tuition fees being quite expensive, so I currently pursuing in a community college. Because I dropped out, I owe the university money.
In total, including student loans, I’m $34,513.34 in debt. I have a meeting with SSI next month due to the fact that they believe that they overpaid me, so if they believe that I owe them money, I would be $45,313.34 in debt. I’m not worried about student loans because I’m in college and I had to paid them back six months after graduation. What I’m worried about is how I’m supposed to pay it off.
Here is my financial layout: Rent: $200-$450/month (The apartment is in my boyfriend, our roommate, and I’s name) Car Insurance: $465/month (I got claimed three times, even though one of the accidents where I was proven not guilty) Capital One Credit Card: $332.47; $230 minimum payment EasyPay: $3,010; $190 bi-weekly ($7,200 if paying 24 months. I was talked out by my grandmother to get my car fixed. I’m regretting it now.) Apple Card: $248.75; $50 minimum Credit One: $815.30 (it’s now in collections) U.S. Acute Care Solutions: $1570 ($1048 is in collections. I got into a terrible car accident and my Medicaid didn’t cover it.) UTSA: $5,876.20 ($50 a month agreement with the Fiscal Service. Missed only one payment, they will send it to collection.) iPhone: $28.34/month T-Mobile: $90-$130/month est. Best Buy: $400 Chime: $24.87 Cash App: $78.75 *potentially SSI: $10,800 Student Loans: $19,018 (Had to pay around Fall 2027)
My boyfriend, roommate, and I are already struggling with finances. I had money for rent, but my own apartment towed my car because I didn’t get a sticker. I waited on them and they were a no show, but at the end I lost $226.
I currently work for Six Flags and get paid 16/hr, but I only work once a week and it’s pretty far. I got my Associate of Science degree and not a lot of people hired me due to insufficient experience.
I’m actively looking for new jobs as we speak, but I don’t know if I’m going to get hired. How can I be sane if I’m this much in debt? I’m only 21 years old and I have been eating once a week. I realize my financial situation is worse because I haven’t got a proper check-up in almost two years. I need help.
Any advice?

My mother has ocpd and I wonder if some of her behaviours related to her disorder or its just who she is
My mother is obsessed with cleaning , she wants our house to look like some 5 stars hotel like all the time , I know that's her ocpd but I do try to keep the house as clean as possible, I help her around the house with everything , financially, with chores , keep her company
I can leave any time but when I left her 8 years ago and went abroad she almost lost her mind for loneliness and depression, she asked me to came
Iam trying to fix our relationship and spend time with her making new good memories with the time left for us yet she doesn't want me , she keep saying that me being around is helpful and she appreciate it then she will suggest me leaving
Iam from a culture where its normal to live with your parents, even people find it strange , why are you as the only child leaving your old mother alone ?
I left her now and moved , I just hope she wont start some drama about her misery and loneliness
I literally stayed for her and my younger sister (not biological) neither for me or my mother , they didn't had a car , no one drive , my sister doesn't know how to handle my mother rage or keep things as how she wants
Also my mother doesn't want to spend money on anyone , after we both left (me and the 15 years old girl who was like a sister and a family member for us ) my mother said that she is happy no one is cooking , no one is using the house , everything is just too calm
This was my mother for all of my life , she doesn't want people , she prefer the house clean , no guests , no friends and she doesn't even want her only child to live with her
She used to resent me living with her using the house , eating food , going for bathroom ....etc , she would always mention all the simple things she is doing to me since I was like 13
At some point at that age too she started hating and resenting me with all of her heart for no apparent reason
She never really spended money on me , she would spend on her siblings or the man she was in a relationship with instead of me
I grow up like if I was poor despite we weren't poor , my mother has a good career and salary
She wouldn't cook in order for the kitchen to stay clean , I literally grow up eating snacks , yeah only snacks , and I had eating issues and looked anorexic
There is much more to say but dont want to make this long
Anyway is that ocpd , does ocpd make you like that , that you cant even live or tolerate the existing of your only child ?

I have a few things to say about her or to her. 1. Your boys have faces only their mother could love. Stop with the "i have cute kids" bs. 2. Get that cough checked out. Seriously its been over a year at least that ive noticedno improvement. 3. As a mother who is struggling, the last thing you should want is your sons to be homeless with you. Stop making it seem like you depend on them. 4. WHERE ARE THE FATHERS, WHY ARENT THEY HELPING. 5. I get having disabilities, trust me. But for your son in his 20s to be on disability when he has had a job before is asinine. He just has no work ethic. 6. If you're disabled, look into group homes??? Oh wait then you'll have rules that you won't follow. 7. Teach your damn sons how to respect women and children. They speak to them like they're garbage and wonder why they're single. 8. Between you and Tyler you should be getting roughly 1600 a month, yet you never have money?? Learn to budget and stop depending on followers and the government to pay your way through life. 9. Don't expect your boy tyler to stay with you, hes gotta travel the world (didn't know canada wasnt a state) and find that 1950s kind of love (withiut being the bread winner and getting pissed his girl has to work bc why would she work when he can get from followers and government? Lastly, inform your children that they will most likely get tax evasion and jail time for not paying taxes on all their tiktok money they "hustle" for.
Yall need help.

I’m so stuck and told my current company I’d let them know the score on Monday, however I’m going to have to tell them tomorrow I’m not ready yet. Just looking for your thoughts and what you’d do- I’ll try describe my situation as accurate as I can…
I’ll preface by saying I wasn’t actively looking for a new role got approached by a recruiter and went from there. Got an offer, current job have made a counter offer that works out a bit less money but they do have good benefits.
Current role- WFH most days, honestly very easy role, in control of my own time. Can pop out throughout the day if I need to get stuff done. Never stressed, may be too comfortable?
New roles offered both a promotion (that would probably take another 1.5-2 years to get to at current company) and a near 50% pay rise - current company have then offered to up my pay about 20% to keep me plus other benefits that bring the package to about 80-90% of what the new jobs offering.
Cons of the new role are with the promotion come a lot more roles and responsibilities (and I’m not even sure I’m good enough for them) and less freedom as I’ll be in the office most the time working longer hours.
So I’ve essentially got comfort vs forwarding career faster as my choice, but it’s going to be harder work and potentially even test my skills- a little worried about the 3 month probationary period. And I won’t be at home anymore.
What would you do?

today a woman walked up to pick up her medicine. i told her that she had 3 scripts ready and that 1 was still in fill, but told her i could fill it for her in a few minutes, up to 15 minutes, or we could check out the 3 ready ones and have her pick up the 1 (allergy med) later. to this she gets huffy and goes, "fine, i'll just take what you have"
i'm like... ok! and start the transaction when the pharmacy managerph comes behind me to go put away will call bags. the woman cuts in and goes, "[manager], when are y'all gonna have my script ready for me?" to which she replies, "what's not ready?" and looks at me expectantly.
i tell her, "the allergy med in her queue isn't ready yet, but she didn't want to wait for it" to cover my own ass. rph comments, "we can fill it for you shortly, are you sure?"
the woman's demeanor instantly shifts. she goes, "oh, THANK YOU [manager]! she said i was gonna have to wait 20-30 minutes!" to which i am flabbergasted and so, so very insulted right after i had just offered to help her. i immediately cut in in anger and curtly say, "ma'am, i did not say that, i told you up to 15 minutes."
rph notices i'm getting heated and gracefully coaxes me with a glance to go take a breather. i take a 5 minute breather to calm down before committing assault on this little old LIAR and i return to her throwing a fit, saying that she's calling corporate and our DM who she happens to know personally because i am a liar and so is my coworker, who heard everything and put in a good word for me and repeated what i told her.
i know these people are often all lip, but what the hell. i literally offered to fill her script for her about 30 mins to close and told her up to 15 so she wouldn't leave and come back to have her script not ready yet, and she bends over fucking backwards to make herself a victim and make me the perp???

I've had my cat for a year now. I've had her on the instinct cat food wet and dry for the entire time. I've always mixed them together. Suddenly she's stopped eating it and l have no clue what else to give her. I got four different kinds of natural balance wet cat food to see if she'll eat them but I keep seeing other posts about them having recalls. I just want some options on other foods to teed her. Healthy kinds preferably. Thanks!

Hi everyone,
I'm posting this on a throwaway as I don't want this to be connected to my main account as it's quite a sensitive subject. I follow this sub on my main and would love some advice, general support and some virtual hugs from anyone who has been through something like this.
For some background I've been dealing with a reactive poodle cross (under 10kg) for four years now. Had him since a puppy, runt of the litter and just wired differently. Incredibly anxious and nervous, which started to manifest itself as reactivity/aggression as he reached adolescence. Absolutely lovely dog when around people and dogs he knows, but very difficult around strangers, and has particularly issues with guarding me, family members and our other older female dog (who does not have behavioural issues).
We've been working with a trainebehaviorist for years now (training and meds including fluoxetine and clonidine) and we were actually seeing improvements. We could see dogs on the other side of the steet and not react, and were walking past strangers with no lunging. This was a big improvement on how he was a year or so ago, and I was feeling optimistic about managing him.
And then on Friday, the worst happened. Totally my fault - I was staying with a pregnant friend to help them out with driving them to a maternity appointment, and we were walking the literal fifty metres to the car. We were running late and I hadn't put his head halter on him because I was just planning to strap him into his car harness. I don't even know how it happened, but out of nowhere he lunged at a man walking towards us that I hadn't seen, jerked the lead out of my hand and got his leg from behind.
I quickly got him back under control and tried to descelate the situation but it was just hut wrenchingly awful. Now I totally sympathise with this man as absolutely no one deserves to be bitten by a dog, however he refused to accept he hadn't bitten anyone before, and told us how he was going to call the police and took photos etc. of me and the dog for evidence. I was beyond apologetic and gave him all of my details (as did my friend who was local) and offered to pay for medical treatment if he needed it but but this was refused (in the UK you can get free treatment anyway if you are prepared to wait to be seen). Eventually we managed to descelate the situation and he left and I had a total meltdown in the car.
Now he did call the police, who turned up at my friend's house a few days later. I had gone back to London by then. They told my friend that he hadn't broken the skin but there was a bruise, and seeing as the dog wasn't there, they would just refer it to the police in London (I gave my address so they would be able to track me down). However I am not convinced this incident will meet the threshold for London police bothering to do anything given how understaffed they are and the much more serious crime we have here. The uncertainty of it though is just so awful.
I've called my trainer and vet and we're taking steps to prevent this - muzzle training etc. and they both feel that he was most likely guarding my heavily pregnant friend. He has known her since he was a puppy and they have both said pregnancy can absolutely impact a way a dog behaves in a similar way to how even a normally passive dog may defend children. It doesn't change what happened but it was at least helpful to potentially identify a trigger as to why things went south so fast.
But I am so incredibly upset and anxious about the whole situation - as well as having so much guilt about things I could and should have done differently to prevent this. I just feel like I have let myself and my dog down. It feels like the last four years of training and monumental effort have all been for nothing, and I am so upset at the potential prospect of owning a dog who could legally be mandated to forever be muzzled as it just feels like the light at the end of the tunnel has gone. I'm also absolutely terrified at the prospect of police turning up at my house and what to do or say if they want to see him - he hates strange men and I know he'd make the absolute worst impression. I know realistically that they can't seize him or put him down for this level of incident but the thoughts keep on intruding.
If anyone has any advice or support then I would love to hear from you. Even if it just to take my mind off the fact that the police may turn up at my house this week... Thanks so much to everyone in advance.

I am looking for some opinions here. I have 3 cats who were previously all fed wet food. I rotate quite a few brands such as fancy feast, rawz, nacho, nulo, occasional other things that are on sale. I was doing just wet food because I have one cat with a weight issue and one with a history of cystitis and epilepsy/brain damage who I am not sure even knows how to drink water. They do fine with only wet. The problem is my third. She was doing well with the wet food for a little bit but periodically she will hunger strike if she is given anything as a treat that resembles dry food. I gave her some dry hairball supplement treats and she is on hunger strike again. She is 6 years old and used to be free fed dry food when we didn't have money for wet/didn't know there were benefits. She has never had a weight issue, seems to be a healthy weight with very little fluctuation in her life regardless of diet/schedule. She is about 6lbs, on the leaner side but vet said she isn't underweight, she is just built like a kitten. No health issues in adulthood and she sees a vet on a regular schedule for checkups.
She surely remembers being fed dry food. She will scream at me all day and refuse what I give her, only occasionally licking the top. She will starve herself. She does not care if I sprinkle kibble on top, she will still refuse. When she is hungry she will try to trip me or climb my legs. I am tired of fighting so I gave her some kibble that I mixed with some water, with no wet food added. (sometimes I use it ground up as a topper for the others for their less favorite varieties, it works well to prevent food waste). She gobbled it right up and stopped screaming at me.
I love this cat so much and want to do what's best for her. Is it really that bad to feed quality dry food? I am using N&D brand, wild boar flavor. She doesn't mind the water and eats it in one serving so it isn't sitting around getting soggy. Is it really healthy to feed only wet food if it is a constant fight? I want her to be happy as well. I'm just looking for opinions here. What does everyone think of N&D? It seems to be a favorite taste wise and seems to be good quality ingredients. Has anyone had any issues feeding this long term?

My mother has ocpd and I wonder if some of her behaviours related to her disorder or its just who she is
My mother is obsessed with cleaning , she wants our house to look like some 5 stars hotel like all the time , I know that's her ocpd but I do try to keep the house as clean as possible, I help her around the house with everything , financially, with chores , keep her company
I can leave any time but when I left her 8 years ago and went abroad she almost lost her mind for loneliness and depression, she asked me to came
Iam trying to fix our relationship and spend time with her making new good memories with the time left for us yet she doesn't want me , she keep saying that me being around is helpful and she appreciate it then she will suggest me leaving
Iam from a culture where its normal to live with your parents, even people find it strange , why are you as the only child leaving your old mother alone ?
I left her now and moved , I just hope she wont start some drama about her misery and loneliness
I literally stayed for her and my younger sister (not biological) neither for me or my mother , they didn't had a car , no one drive , my sister doesn't know how to handle my mother rage or keep things as how she wants
Also my mother doesn't want to spend money on anyone , after we both left (me and the 15 years old girl who was like a sister and a family member for us ) my mother said that she is happy no one is cooking , no one is using the house , everything is just too calm
This was my mother for all of my life , she doesn't want people , she prefer the house clean , no guests , no friends and she doesn't even want her only child to live with her
She used to resent me living with her using the house , eating food , going for bathroom ....etc , she would always mention all the simple things she is doing to me since I was like 13
At some point at that age too she started hating and resenting me with all of her heart for no apparent reason
She never really spended money on me , she would spend on her siblings or the man she was in a relationship with instead of me
I grow up like if I was poor despite we weren't poor , my mother has a good career and salary
She wouldn't cook in order for the kitchen to stay clean , I literally grow up eating snacks , yeah only snacks , and I had eating issues and looked anorexic
There is much more to say but dont want to make this long
Anyway is that ocpd , does ocpd make you like that , that you cant even live or tolerate the existing of your only child ?

I've owned VW Busses and Vanagons for nearly 45 years. I still love my 1991 Multivan, but she's getting a little old (301,500 mi). Obviously I've been waiting, and waiting, on the VW ID.Buzz, but it doesn't seem really true to the type, it's expensive and doesn't have the cargo capacity (like hauling an antique buffet) of existing vans. There's Canoo, which is much more true to the transporter spirit, but I have zero faith it will ever make it to production.
Our default next vehicle is a MY (owned a Bolt for a while and loved it, but it was not suitable as a primary vehicle when making regular, over 400-700 round trip visits to family).
I saw this today and will be jealous when it hits the non-USA market.
https://cnevpost.com/2024/04/25/zeekr-unveils-sea-m-architecture-mix-debut/
Are there any other vans on the horizon?

Borrowed my husband’s phone to take pictures of my girls while on vacation. Noticed he had a text, okay, I’m slightly snoopy, but I don’t usually go through his phone (I swear) but we’ve been married 8 years so what’s to hide, right? It a text saying the pimp of recent escort he hired wants to blackmail him. Black mask on and all. C What?! So I go through his browser history ( I know, shame on me) while our two little girls are playing in the creek and find he DID go to an escort site to check the reviews on one particular escort. Her phone info was at the bottom of the page.
Well… After a 5 hour car ride home and getting our kids squared away I asked him about it. He said it had “popped up” after going to a porn site. I told him that’s fine but I had looked it up my phone without having to put my phone number in and didn’t expect a text from dude. Lots of porn doesn’t require a phone number!
THEN he reminded me he wanted an air fryer for his birthday.
AITA?????